My Rollercoaster Ride from Doubt to Dreams

Have you ever wished for something so hard that you could almost taste it—like that last slice of cake you hid in the fridge, only to find your sibling beat you to it? That’s how I felt the first time I heard about manifesting.

People online were raving about it. “Just think positive and your dreams will come true!” they said. Honestly, I thought it was just another internet fad—like planking or eating cereal out of a shoe (don’t ask).
But then, life threw me a curveball. I was stuck in a rut, my thoughts were more negative than a Monday morning, and I needed a change. That’s when I decided to give manifesting a real shot. Here’s my story—sometimes funny, sometimes a little sad, but always with a positive twist.

What Does Manifesting Really Mean?

Manifesting is more than wishful thinking. It’s a self-development practice where you focus your thoughts, beliefs, and actions on a specific goal, hoping to bring it into reality. Think of it as planting a seed in your mind and watering it with positive energy, clear intentions, and a dash of action. The modern meaning is “to hope for a desire until it comes true,” but it also means making your dreams clear and real through your actions and mindset.

Can Manifesting Actually Work?

I was skeptical at first. Can thinking really change your life? Turns out, there’s some science behind it. When you focus on positive outcomes, you start to believe in yourself more, which boosts your motivation and confidence. Studies show that people who practice manifestation often feel more successful and driven. But here’s the catch: it’s not magic. You still have to put in the work and stay realistic—otherwise, you might end up manifesting a pizza delivery that never arrives.

How Manifesting Works (and How I Messed Up at First)

At its core, manifesting works like this:

• Belief: You start by believing you can achieve your goal.
• Thought: You focus on what you want.
• Emotion: You let yourself feel the excitement or joy of having it.
• Habit and Behavior: You take actions that move you closer to your goal.
• Experience: Eventually, you see results.

My first attempt? I tried to manifest a bestselling notebook. I visualized my Amazon sales skyrocketing. I even did a little happy dance. But I forgot one key step: action! Without designing, researching trends, and actually uploading my product, nothing happened.

Lesson learned: manifesting is not just about thinking—it’s about doing.

How to Manifest (Without Losing Your Mind)

Here’s how I made manifesting work for me (and how you can, too):

• Get Clear on What You Want: Be specific. Instead of “I want to be successful,” I wrote, “I want to sell 100 notebooks this month.”
• Visualize: I pictured my Amazon dashboard full of sales. Sometimes, I even drew it in my journal (badly, but hey, it worked).
• Act As If: I started my day like I was already a successful seller—answering emails, planning new designs, and yes, checking my stats (maybe too often).
• Stay Positive: Whenever negative thoughts crept in (“What if no one buys my notebooks?”), I replaced them with positive affirmations (“People love my designs!”).
• Practice Gratitude: I celebrated every small win, even if it was just one sale or a nice comment from a customer.
• Let Go: I learned to trust the process. Sometimes things took longer than I wanted, but I kept going.

The 3-6-9 Manifesting Rule: My Favorite Hack One day, I stumbled across the 3-6-9 method—a technique that’s as simple as it is powerful (and, honestly, a little fun).

Here’s how it works:

• Morning: Write your goal or affirmation 3 times.
• Afternoon: Write it 6 times.
• Evening: Write it 9 times.

For example, I wrote, “I am a successful e-commerce business owner,” three times in the morning, six times at lunch, and nine times before bed. Do this for 33 days, and you might be surprised at how your mindset (and your actions) start to change.

The numbers 3, 6, and 9 are said to be special—Nikola Tesla even called them the key to the universe! Whether you believe in the magic or just like the routine, it helps keep your mind focused and your energy positive.

Funny Manifesting Fails (and Why I Keep Going)

Not every manifesting attempt was a win. Once, I tried to manifest waking up early to work on my blog. I wrote it down, visualized it, even set my alarm. But when morning came, my bed was just too comfy. I hit snooze so many times, I almost manifested being late for breakfast.
But here’s the thing: manifesting isn’t about being perfect. It’s about staying positive, learning from your mistakes, and trying again. Each time I caught myself slipping into negativity (“I’ll never be a morning person!”), I gently nudged my thoughts back on track (“I’m getting better every day!”).

Final Thoughts: Manifesting Isn’t Magic, But It Is Powerful
Manifesting helped me throw away a lot of negative thoughts. It didn’t turn my life into a fairy tale overnight, but it gave me hope, focus, and a reason to keep moving forward—even on the tough days. Sometimes I laugh at myself, sometimes I feel a little down, but I always end up grateful for the journey.
So, if you’re feeling stuck or want to try something new, give manifesting a shot. Start small, keep it fun, and remember: your mindset is the first step to making your dreams real. And if you ever need inspiration, just picture me, dancing in my living room, manifesting another day of chasing my dreams—and maybe, just maybe, waking up before noon.

Ready to try manifesting? Grab a notebook (maybe one of mine!), write down your dreams, and let’s make some magic happen—one positive thought at a time.

Read more: How I Manifested My Dreams: Tips and Tricks